As they are

The world today, in all it's fast pace, got to run to win the race, running late, need to get ahead of everyone else, before there's nothing left on the plate. How do we ever manage to find the time for ourselves?, even more, how do we practice reality creation to live the life we want when we're caught up in a reality we don't want?, how do we attract all the right people when we're surrounded by nothing but self-loathing, miserable life hating people? All valid questions and the answers may be a tough pill to swallow, personally speaking, I've been through the mud and now I've made it to dry land so to speak, but it wasn't easy to make peace with everything I didn't want just so I could move into more favorable circumstances, I mean to reach a level of non-judgment when your world seems to be upside down is quite a feat as well as a leap. Wanting change for the better means making peace with where you are, despite how unfavorable the circumstances may be, it doesn't mean that you have to like it and that's okay, you'll still move forward. Going a little further into detail on this subject we'll reference the higher self, that bigger part of you, that part that knows the quickest and easiest ways to manifest your desires and intentions, that part of you who is abundant and knows no lack or limitation, that part of you that lives in a constant state of non-judgment and inner joy, that part of you that is unaffected [neutral] by anything that happens in your physical reality no matter how bad or unpleasant you perceive it to be. When you are aligned with the higher YOU, you could care less about what goes on in your physical reality, you could care less what others think, say, or do, circumstances don't matter because your state of being is your number one priority, sounds simple theoretically but in practice it will take time, you will want to learn and master the art of letting go and allowing, and this topic could be another post altogether, but a near future post is coming to cover that topic in more detail. Once mastered however, a non-attached state of allowing is achieved, nothing trivial bothers you as much, other people's negativity has little to no effect on you, you're coming from a neutral perspective, as your higher self comes from. Allowing circumstances and people to be as they are without self-judgment or judgment directed at others is empowering, this is true freedom, one of our biggest pitfalls with reality creation is giving away our own power to some external, unwanted circumstance, by judging it [disappointment, fear, sadness] or giving away our own personal power to someone else [anger, jealousy, resentment] the reason is this, when we give away our own power we feel bad, trying to create the life you want while feeling bad or upset over trivial things will keep you stuck in a perpetual negative cycle, when we get upset or angry at someone we hardly know, we are only hurting ourselves, as well as sabotaging our efforts to create the life we want, so are they really worth it? Mastering the art of letting go and allowing means being neutral despite your unwanted physical environment, being the attractor not the harsh reactor, being in a place of non-judgment despite the unwanted people and circumstances, to allow them to be as they are.