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Good day all, four years into the Law of Attraction practice and finally I am achieving victory!, not the getting of material stuff victory, but the self mastery one, having complete control over my thoughts and emotions. This is the biggest reward in deliberate creation practice due to the fact that feeling good should always come first, that's spirit alignment which brings the good stuff! When we are deliberate in our thoughts and feelings towards positive outcomes there are perks along with many surprises daily, we line up to everything we want and then some, with the dominant focus on the positive it becomes habitual in our daily lives bringing opportunities and opening doors. As I've finally developed this ''new and improved'' way of being nothing seems to bother me as much as it used to, meaning nothing is too big to interfere with my dominant feel good vibrations, whereas a few years before it was the other way around, when little things would send me into an emotional downward spiral, reinforcing my negative dominant vibration. Looking back I realize how we tend to view things much worse than they actually are, and the vicious cycle of negativity never ends because we become a doormat or a victim of circumstances instead of ''owning'' those circumstances. One thing that helped me overcome certain big ''perceived'' problems was to imagine myself holding the world in the palm of my hand, those big problems became very small very quick! It takes 30 to 40 days to form a new habit, of course it varies to the individual, it is said 21 days in some cases but we can tend to back-slip so we have to start over and keep it persistent until the new state is achieved. Even when perceived ''big'' intentions are launched they may get in the way of happiness because we feel like we need them and THEN we'll be happy when we get them, the lack of them will cause the unhappiness hindering those very things we want to experience. Even the grandest material desires cannot outweigh the benefits of being happy, with or without them, and it took me a long time to learn this lesson, outer things don't bring happiness, true happiness is within us, and when we achieve this dominant state without getting the material things we strongly desire, and here's the paradox, those very desires begin to ''seek'' us out, because we no longer ''need'' them, THAT'S THE SECRET!