Stay uncompromised

When we launch a desire or set huge goals we put the wheels in motion for positive change, of course some of us will start out with smaller goals or a series of steps to achievement, nevertheless, some form of change has to occur to move forward. Over four years ago I've launched, what would be considered by most, very huge goals, while most practicing deliberate creators believe you should begin with smaller goals and work up your belief system that way, I believe in ''going big'' right out of the gate, and although I've had to change my belief system around this way of thinking, I've remained steadfast no matter how long it takes. I am by definition a stubborn man, and if I've set my intents on something I want bad enough I'll get it, only this time I'm more of an allowing person, meaning that I'll do everything in my power to stay focused and aligned to my goals. I wrote some time ago about keeping your goals and desires close to your heart, and I wish to emphasize more on this, we really need to be careful of whom we tell our goals and desires to, because of this new success you are pursuing, those close to you may try to sway you, with good intentions mind you, they'll want to protect you from the failures and devastation they themselves have experienced, or the fear of you moving on and leaving them behind. Another issue could be your wanting success could cast a shadow on those close to you, making them aware of their own pitfalls, resulting in jealousy and resentment. Because others can't succeed it is only natural that they will tell you that you can't either, by even meaning well, they want to protect you because of their own experiences of trying and failing, that it's just not worth it, and that you should just settle for what you have and expect nothing more. This wanting of a better life through personal development can move people out of your life, and bring others in, what this means is that as you become more positive and empowered, advancing towards your dreams, the negative people you once associated with begin to move out of your life, or if you are fortunate, follow by your example. This can be painful for the most part, we care about certain people in our life and we want them in it no matter what they think and believe, but we also must remember that personal development comes at a price, a price of big changes, and not everybody is going to come along for the ride. This is where acceptance comes into play here, acceptance that you deserve what you want, acceptance that you may lose some of those close to you, acceptance that NOTHING is more important than staying on the path of your dreams no matter what obstacles. There is a silver lining here, new like minded people will move into your experience, and it's only natural, these ''new'' acquaintances will come into your life to aid and assist you in achieving your goals or in the very least give you moral support, and who knows, those left behind could come back into your life, seeing your own success they may finally decide that they want the same, they may ''wake up'' to this new empowered way of thinking, and hence, you leading by example! When we want change we need to stay laser focused, it's so easy to get side-tracked in this modern society, it's okay to share your goals with those who support you and have similar ways of thinking, but telling anyone and everyone from the rooftops will sap the energetic momentum you've worked so hard to gain. Whatever your goal is, believe in it, but mostly believe in yourself, don't let anyone or anything come in between, nothing is impossible, nothing!